Monday, November 17, 2008

DAVIE DAVIE CROCKETTE KING OF THE WILD FRONTIER!!!

So, David, my little brother, came home from his mission yesterday...er, saturday so two days ago. His flight from JFK was delayed so duh dun dahhh he missed his connection to go on from slc to reno! So I got him! We were able to pick him up from the airport saturday night and then I drove him back up Sunday morning. It was so wonderful. I dont think I realized how much I missed him until I finally got to see him again. He is so fun and funny and just great! I was bouncing off the walls all day at just the prospect of him being able to stay with me and then when it happend oh man, I could not wait until his flight landed! He kept us laughing the whole trip down to provo. We stayed up talking late at night and then because Jadie is having some issue sleeping she woke up at 2, 3, and 4. at 3:30am I heard David moving around downstairs. Finally I got up with him at 4:30. I'm pretty sure he couldn't sleep because he was so excited to finally make it home! I was thinking after he left how wonderful family is. They are a built in friend system. Escpecially when you grow up in small house and cant get away from each other. You have to become friends. I love that boy so much. And aren't I lucky that I get to claim him and each of my brother's as friends. Anyway, I just think that I am truly blessed because I have so many friends...my family. And we will always keep in contact and we each are truly interested in the others. It was so nice to see him and I am just praying and hoping he is really going to move up to Provo. Sunday dinners can be reinstated!! He may have changed on his mission in some ways but he is still my goofy little brother. Dave, I'm so glad your back.

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Ranting: Give the church a break!

I write today in disgust at what is happening to my church. We are opposed to gay marriage and therefore we are being persecuted. Six churches in Utah have been vandalized and three in California. There have been huge protests outside of our temples. Just yesterday a Book of Mormon was found burning on the steps of a church in Colorado. All of this is happening because we oppose gay marriage. It seems as though those who disagree with us think that Mormons are the only ones that voted on prop 8 in California. I’ve done the math and if every member from the age of 8 up, whether they are active or not, had voted they still would have only made up a small portion of those who voted to pass this bill. The LDS church therefore is not solely responsible for its passage. Even if that were not the case the hate shown toward us is unjustified and prejudice. We live in a democratic society where issues that are brought up are voted on by the general populace. This populace has voted a certain way and that way is to uphold traditional marriage. Where is the news coverage? Is bigotry and prejudice only to be reported if it fits into a non-conservative ideology? The LDS church is not alone in being persecuted either. I find it ironic that those who are looking for acceptance or ‘tolerance’ can give none to those who disagree with them. Tolerance inherently means there is a disagreement on a subject. Conservatives disagree with liberals. We are not telling people they are terrible or going to hell, we are saying that we believe that marriage is between one man and one woman. Do we now live in a society where we can only have freedom of opinion if it agrees with the press or the left wing? What happened to religious freedom? The most disturbing thing to me is that these people, who ever they are, are targeting the places and things we hold most sacred and dear. I do not blame the gay community, I don’t think that there is a grand band saying ‘ok go out and get back at those Mormons’. I don’t know who these people are; I only know they are targeting my church, my beliefs because we believe in the sanctity of marriage. Our temples are our most sacred buildings and our churches are not to be defiled. To target these things, our buildings our scriptures, is to hit below the belt. Each person is entitled to having their own opinion. There are appropriate and inappropriate ways of going about and expressing those opinions. This behavior is disgusting. I’m hurt and angered that people seem to think its ok to destroy property or spew hatred because of a difference of opinion. Must they march around our places of worship, disturbing the services and scaring petitioners? Many do not understand who we are as Mormons. Many do not know our beliefs or what we are truly like. Instead of trying to find out who we are, we are met with prejudice and violence. We do not believe in violence or hatred. We believe you love your neighbor as yourself, you love your enemy. We believe in following Christ. We do not believe we have to sacrifice our beliefs in order to love those who disagree. If anyone who does not know who we are and wishes to find out what we truly believe all they need do is listen to our prophet. They need only go to our website and read for themselves. We do not promote prejudice or hate instead we are against it. This will be the end of my ranting I guess. I just wish that we could have respect for our beliefs as we give that respect to others. When you live in a democracy you, as the people, decide on the laws you will live by. Each of these laws is a moral choice. Therefore our decision about marriage is simply one more moral choice we are living by. Also, when you live in this land, you must, whether good or bad, go with the will or majority of the people. The majority decides the laws etc and therefore when the vote has been made (twice now) that is the will of the people and we need to respect it. Of course it is easier for me to say that when the will complies with my ideology. I just want the bigotry to stop. I just want respect on both sides, we dont have to concede our beliefs in order to respect others though. I just ask 'Where is the love?'

Friday, November 7, 2008

Photo Tagging


Annie photo tagged me... This is from the fourth folder in my pictures and its the fourth picture. This is Ezra, Jesse and Sarah's oldest...We went to my house for Christmas last year- glory glory hallyaluaa! (How do you spell that?). We had a wonderful time. I cant wait for thanksgiving this year! Anyways, Danny brought Rock band and Steven got out all his drum sticks so that there for enough drum sticks to play forever. The little kids loved playing with all the instruments. Ezra right here is showing off his sticks. I dont know if Danny will ever bring that game again for a big family event but it sure was fun. Everyone loved it. Cameron played so much I wondered where he was. Anytime I couldn't find him all I had to do was find Rock Band, and there he was! Thanks Danny for letting everyone play that game!

Halloween

So, we had a small halloween get together. We made homemade rootbeer (with the dry ice and everything, it was pretty sweet.
The Scott's. Mindy and Jon dressed up as pirates, that was pretty rad. And cute Bradley was a salior, he had yet to go to the dark side of the ocean. :)

Kami and Tina with Tina's little Addie. Kami was a dragonfly and Tina was a cat. Addie is a little bit older than Jadie and she was a lady bug. They were very cute together, unfortunately Tina has all those cute pictures so I need to get them from her. Cameron kept throwing Addie up in the air which made her wings float, it was cute. Tina had to fly solo with both her kids since Jay had to work. We all informed him that he was lame but on the same hand we all understanding needing money. How could we throw parties if no one worked?

This is Nathan, Tina's oldest. He did NOT want his picture taken. He was scoobie doo. I think he was having too much fun playing with his animals

So here we are. The bat couple. I was batgirl and Cameron was batman (only gotham is going through an economic crisis right now so batman has to do with what he has). Cameron wore his bat shirt, my long johns, yellow gloves my dad bought him, commando boots...and another shirt as a cape...pretty funny

I on the other hand LOVE to dress up. So I got this unitard from DI and painted my bat on it. I dyed the boy short underwear yellow that I'm wearing on top. I wore high heeled boots, and had a mohawk! ohyeah! oh and when I was super cool I had velvet gloves too but it was such a hastle to have them on that they were taken off shortly after the party started, as with the boots...they hurt my feet. BUT I still was batgirl!


Here are our decorations...I carved 7 pumpkins...cameron carved one and hallowed out one....yeah. but you cant see it but one pumpkin says Brady and one says Bunch. it was fun to carve

Mindy came over and helped my decorate...this is one of our spider webs


Heres the other. sweet huh! the web took up our whole window! Mindy, you rock.


So with the other pumpkins I spray painted them gold, and then covered them with glitter. they took so long they are staying up until I put up Christmas decor...the spiders liked this spot



Another of Mindy's creations...our little graveyard. May they all rest in peace. Happy Halloween!

Thursday, October 30, 2008

Young Womens



I forgot to post about mutal yesterday! We acutally brought a camera so...there are pictures! We dressed up and carved pumpkins and decorated cookies. It was lovely. When I was younger...well heck even now, when ever I was uncorfortable or felt insecure (which was just about always) I would go nuts. I never wanted anyone to know how insecure I was so I always pretended to be totally confident. Consequently, I was totally weird and crazy for a long time, trying to fool everyone. Now that I'm older and I'm in charge of Young Women sometimes its hard for me to remember these girls dont respond the way I did. I mean, in high school you are so concerned about being cool its almost a handicap. Anyway, the point is that, during this party it was so evident that no girls wanted to put themselves out there. They couldn't go all out in the costumes, or have a lot of fun with the pumpkins of cookies. No one could really enjoy themselves because they were so scared to be thought of as silly. Isn't that sad? A few girls did dress all the way up but mostly they just couldn't. If only we could get over our shyness and just be ourselves. I think a huge lesson to remember is that no one is really focused on you, everyone is focused on themselves. I just felt sad that we couldn't have a great time because everyone was so scared. This feeling of shyness doesn't just go away with high school either. A lot of people, I think, still have to deal with feeling out of place or not knowing what to do in situations. Can I just ask a favor, whenever you are around me stop worrying! Just be you. And I'll just be me. I promise not to judge you or think your weird. Lets have fun and let go and stop worring if we are going to look weird or get ridiculed...we're going to be fine! enough ranting...here are my girls...i love these girls so much...bonus points if you can figure out first where i am and second what i am...Oh yeah, and the girl in front with the mustache and purple tights is 'White Trash Woman' the white trash super hero...haha Ashlee is great


Wednesday, October 29, 2008

And another one comes along

Yesterday I went to the Midwife clinic for my first appointment to find out how far along I am. The whole time leading up to this appointment I was sure that they would say, 'wait why are you here? That test was wrong your not really pregnant.' Obviously that didn't happen. We went through all the rigamroul of putting me in the computer. Then the midwife decided to just see if we could hear the heartbeat. We could. That amazing pulsing, swish swish swish, of a new life swirled around us and finally this seemed real. I am going to have another child. There is a small life growing inside of me once again. I, of course, started to cry. To realize this is real was overwhelming. When I first heard I was pregnant I wasn't very happy about it, but how can I not be thrilled when I finally heard that little heart. Its amazing to already love something you cant see and cant even really feel yet. Anyway, after that we went to get an ultrasound to see my exact due date. The tech did all the measurements then turned the screen toward me and that was when I saw my new little gummy bear. That is what it looks like, haha, a gummy bear. So cute. So according to the measurements I am due- May 27th. But according to the measurements with Jadynne was due Dec 5th. We all see how close that was. Jadynne measured small evey ultrasound, so, maybe the same will be true for this baby, who knows.

We also took some pics of Jadie in her 1st Halloween costume. I decided to make her a turtle! Oh man, I think it turned out so cute! Like my mother, I just have a hard time stopping. I just want to keep adding and adding until it would be so elaborate she couldn't even wear it so...it is in the car.



I'm also posting some pics of us at a pumpkin farm. Wonderful Mindy made the long drive with me so I could get this super good deal. They were, and are I guess, selling as many pumpkins and you can get into a cart for $25. I got 21...I know we could have gotten more but I started to feel guilty. It was awesome. Plus it was super fun to go and pick pumpkins, I felt like I was in F-town again. Running over to Scott Goodpasture's picking out my pumpkin to carve. Very fun. Anyway, those are our comings and goings. And if I can I'll post a few videos of Jadie's 'tricks'



ok well this is Jadynne climbing up the stairs...pretty cute.

Sunday, October 19, 2008

Our Family

Well, I decided I'd better join the blogging sphere. I just love to see my family's blogs so much I thought I should really get into this. So, my first blog I guess I should just tell everyone what is currently happening? Cameron is still going to school, he will be walk in April and then take a few classes during the summer and finally be done. Great news I know! He still works for NuSkin. I finally got to see his office (its one of those secret kind of places...kind of like the priesthood session at confrence). It was pretty nice, he is surrounded by Lawyer offices and wow they are nice. I had this thought the other day-- we always look up to people who have a lot of money, we always want to be them. What we dont understand is how much work it usually takes to get there. I mean if you think about being a doctor or something, there is a lot of school to get through. They have to go to tons of school and then they work long hours after they are graduated. I mean in order to make a lot of money you have to work super hard, no way around it. so I was just thinking that instead of always looking to 'redistrubute wealth' or looking up and envying we instead need to look into our own lives and work. We can make our lives anything we want them to be its just up to us what happens. Instead of blaming everyone else for our lives or just wishing things were different. Lets take control of our lives.
Sorry for the rant. Back to the family. Jadynne is full of tricks. She is a super fast crawler. She loves to clap and sometimes we can get her to wave. She loves pointing, we often have 'ET' moments. She can crawl up the stairs super fast. Mostly she just loves to stand up. Any some what stable object is used to pull herself up. When we hold her hands she walks. Mostly she doesn't want sit if she can be held up for walking. Throughout all of this is makes noise. She loves the sound of her own voice. Dadadada, dgadgadga. Sometimes if i'm really lucky she will say mama. I feel pretty awesome when that happens. It amazing how fast she grows up. I dont think its possible to love this little girl anymore than we do. Finally on to mommy, me. Well, nohting new is really going on with me. I finally got my new glasses so duh dah duh dun!! I can see all the time! its pretty awesome. I'm still in YW. Its wonderful, I'm more one of the girls then a leader. um...oh yeah one more piece of news for me. i'm pregnant. Nothing huge just my life being turned upside down again. so thats the Bradys